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Foster Sharing in Team Work

Posted on : 29-08-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Business & Marketing, Leadership

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At The Helpful Hands Foundation we want to believe that we have an interesting training style, we like to embrace the concept of the ‘dinner table gathering’.

What does this mean? Simple, we like to keep our training (while structured) —very informal. This style allows for peoples of all walks of life to feel comfortable to engage in questions and dialogue which opens the heart to learning.

Sharing and laughing is a key part of our culture.

Our THHF 2009 Third Quarter Training had a great turnout and left members wanting more!



Daisy Says: Be open to learning new things, mostly be open to teach others what you know through example.

A Walk with Inspiration

Posted on : 21-08-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Music & Poetry, Self Transformation

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“If I’m afraid, it doesn’t mean that I’m not brave.

And if I doubt, it doesn’t mean that I’ve lost faith.

And if I fall, if doesn’t mean I can’t go on.

And if I cry, it doesn’t mean that I’m not strong.”

— from Jana Stanfield’s CD, Brave Faith

What good is it to feel the power rush through you; the life force of incredible exuberance and passion and then allow the ego to create walls and boundaries that impede the creative force of your divine right to expand upon the beauty of your creation?

How frustrated can your own spirit feel when you enslave your greatest gift because of your current belief systems?

I am full of questions for you today… What if you allowed Inspiration to walk with you to show you a glimpse of the incredible future that can be yours?

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By inspiration we are moved to create the most amazing feats. Yet inspiration can be brief and sporadic, to some even rare.

Inspiration coupled with fantasy allows your soul to soar to incredible heights. You become the artist with unlimited canvass and potential.

When you are inspired all seems possible, you see the world with crystal clarity.

Ask yourself and answer true:

What is it that inspires me?
Who is it?
What stirs my affection…for the things I love to do?

If you can fill your life with the things that stir your affections and avoid the things that rob you of inspiration, you will have a better opportunity to live that incredible future that awaits you.

Daisy Says: Walk with inspiration and experience the artist within you.

What Else Can Go Wrong?

Posted on : 18-08-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Musings and What Nots, Self Transformation

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Think on how positive Murphy was… Murphy’s Law:
“If anything can go wrong, it will”

That’s a pretty positive statement! Wouldn’t you agree? I am not referring to the quality of the outcome, but.. let’s entertain the truth: that IT WILL happen!

I opened an email today and was reading through, the author was telling me about some challenges they were going through with some of their electrical equipment, the air conditioner needed replacing and the refrigerator also broke. What startled me the most was the last sentence of the email, they went on to say: “Oh well, just waiting to see what else can go wrong.”

I began to think… wow, I wonder how many people are just doing that? Waiting to see ‘what else can go wrong’? I’m sure the Universe is quite eager to fulfill their wish. It is inevitable that we will receive that which we expect.

Most people don’t realize that by thinking over and over on all that can go wrong – they may be attracting more adversity into their lives.

You might have heard about laws of attraction, the secret, or the concept of visualization; do you realize that positive or negative if it is expected – you will receive it!?

Stop the madness, put all that stress aside and start setting aside time each day to relax and start opening to receive better times.

Daisy Says: What Else Can Go Right!?

How Effective is Your Mental Model

Posted on : 17-08-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Self Transformation

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A buzz word that I have been hearing in the recent weeks has been ‘mental model’. So what are mental models?
Simple, mental models are deeply ingrained assumptions or generalizations that influence how we understand the world and how we take action. The mental models that we have established are often the greatest barriers to trying new things.
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The poem of ‘The Blind Men and the Elephant’ expresses this concept best. American poet John Godfrey Saxe (1816-1887) based this poem, on a fable that was told in India many years ago.

It was six men of Indostan

To learning much inclined,
Who went to see the Elephant
(Though all of them were blind),
That each by observation
Might satisfy his mind

The First approached the Elephant,

And happening to fall
Against his broad and sturdy side,
At once began to bawl:
“God bless me! but the Elephant
Is very like a wall!”
The first blind man of six blind men feels the side of the elephant and interprets it as a wall.

The Second, feeling of the tusk,

Cried, “Ho! what have we here
So very round and smooth and sharp?
To me ’tis mighty clear
This wonder of an Elephant
Is very like a spear!”
The second blind man of the six blind men feels an elephant tusk and interprets the elephant to be like a spear.

The Third approached the animal,

And happening to take
The squirming trunk within his hands,
Thus boldly up and spake:
“I see,” quoth he, “the Elephant
Is very like a snake!”
The third blind man of the six blind men touches the elephant’s trunk and interprets it to be a snake.

The Fourth reached out an eager hand,

And felt about the knee.
“What most this wondrous beast is like
Is mighty plain,” quoth he;
” ‘Tis clear enough the Elephant
Is very like a tree!”
The fourth blind man of the six blind men touches the elephant’s leg and mentally visualizes it to be a tree.

The Fifth, who chanced to touch the ear,

Said: “E’en the blindest man
Can tell what this resembles most;
Deny the fact who can
This marvel of an Elephant
Is very like a fan!”
The fifth blind man of the six blind men touches the elephant’s ear and imagines it to be a fan.

The Sixth no sooner had begun

About the beast to grope,
Than, seizing on the swinging tail
That fell within his scope,
“I see,” quoth he, “the Elephant
Is very like a rope!”
The sixth blind man of the six blind men touches the elephant’s ear and interprets it to be a fan.

And so these men of Indostan

Disputed loud and long,
Each in his own opinion
Exceeding stiff and strong,
Though each was partly in the right,
And all were in the wrong!
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Assumptions is the word most often used to refer to mental models. Even though we should not base our actions on assumptions, nonetheless, we use them to make sense of our complex world.

It is safe to say that our mental model may not be totally accurate because they are there based on personal filters of our own personal experience, so therefore are prone to be flawed. Over all though, our mental models serve us well.

Mental models are like puzzle pieces that we need to fit together into a larger whole and affect how we see as well as react to different situations. This also reinforces our own behavior. Understanding the difference between what we believe to be true and what is actually true, allows us to balance between our mental models and current reality.

It is crucial to our own self development and appreciation of the greater picture to question our mental model.

Taking a pro-active approach to developing our skills of reflecting and asking questions:
• “What are my beliefs based on?”
• “Do I have any proof to question any evidence to my beliefs?”
• “Am I willing to consider the possibility that my beliefs may be inaccurate?”

Daisy Says: Changing your assumptions will change your attitude.

Monday Update with Daisy: 8/10

Posted on : 10-08-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Business & Marketing

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