On Gratitude and Excuses
Posted on : 26-11-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Daisy, Musings and What Nots
Tags: Daisy, Family
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Sometimes in life we allow ‘things’ to affect us.
As I sit here contemplating all that I am grateful for (as I always do at the end of my day) – I wonder how many people allow these ‘THINGS’ to rob them of many great opportunities?
What are these ‘things’? Excuses.
– I am too tired
– I am too skinny
– I am too fat
– I am sick
– I am too old
– It’s raining
– I’ve got kids
– I don’t have any money
Those ‘things’ are affirmations of a condition that you see yourself in. You are proclaiming your reality.
… and SO IT IS. Only you can thank yourself for the world you proclaimed as your reality.
Today was a special day, (as it has been these past few days) I awoke to the sound of my mom and dad in my kitchen. I purposefully stayed in bed just to reminisce back to ‘when I was a little girl’. I closed my eyes and heard my parents talking… quietly I smiled amazed at how the little nuances manage to stay the same.
To have them with me on this Autumn day is a blessing.
I have two brothers, whom I love dearly. My younger brother is somewhat estranged… I miss him. Today I am grateful because he called to say hello.
I was working on the farm this morning and was grateful to have friends and family with me. Mostly I was glad for the rain that was falling on our heirloom orange grove (it so desperately needed it). I was so grateful that I continued working in the rain enjoying the raindrops falling on my head.
I am mostly grateful that my 16 year old son still enjoys my company.
Even though the holiday feasting has begun… I am grateful for the opportunity to help others.
I am grateful that I had a chance to visit with my Godmother who was in town (I had not seen her in 17 years).
(Daisy, Godmother Amantina and Mami)
(Just loaded the washing machine) I am grateful that I have a washing machine and dryer- would not want to wash those clothes by hand!
I would have missed a great day today… if I would have given into the excuses.
Yes, I was sleepy and could have stayed in bed, but I would have missed out the morning minutes with my parents. I would have missed meeting friends at the farm. Had I not gone to the farm this morning – the fence job would have had to wait because it needed a commencement approval. I also would have missed the sweet rain falling on me while I worked on the orange grove. I would have missed my sons amazement and remarks at discovering new things on the farm. If I ignored my telephone I would have not been able to help those that called with concerns. And if I would have used the excuse that I was tired, that it was late, that it was too far… I would have missed the opportunity to visit with my Godmother and to give her a hug and let her know that I love her.
Shakespeare wrote:
“And oftentimes, excusing of a fault,
Doth make a fault the worse by the excuse;
As patches set upon a little breach,
Discredit more in hiding of the fault,
Than did the fault before it was so patch’d.”
Excuses. Everyone has them. Are your excuses getting the best of you? Are your excuses depriving you of special moments?
Perhaps it’s time to take up gardening. Plant your garden of success today:
First, plant 3 rows of peas;
Patience
Positive thinking
Persistence
Next, plant 3 rows of squash;
Squash excuses
Squash blame
Squash criticism
Then, plant 3 rows of lettuce;
Let us be responsible
Let us be trustworthy
Let us be ambitious
Finish, with 3 rows of turnip;
Turn up when needed
Turn up with a smile
Turn up with confidence
Daisy Says: Happy Thanksgiving.
Helpful Hands Foundation 2nd Annual Gratitude Luncheon
Posted on : 22-11-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Music & Poetry
Tags: Thanksgiving, The Helpful Hands Foundation
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There is such great healing in the simple act of giving thanks.
When we begin to develop the habit to be aware of all that we can be grateful for the obstacles and challenges begin to appear meaningless in respect to the scope of the bounty of Life that we have before us.
Each one of us was given the same gift – 86,400 seconds in the day… how many of those seconds do you use to say “thank you”? Use a few of those seconds to reflect with a sense of appreciation on meaningful experiences you had during the day. You will be surprised at how many things we can find that are pleasing to us if we just take a moment to think about them.
As for myself, I am always grateful for the opportunity to serve.
Follow Your Inner Guide
Posted on : 18-11-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Family- Life -Friends, Self Transformation
Tags: Believe, Family, Self-Development
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Who would have known that my trip to New Jersey was about inspiring people to action?
The whole while I thought I was going there to bring the goodwill message of the work of The Helpful Hands Foundation and to promote our foreclosure assistance program… and it turned out more than that.
You know, in life we have a plan yet God has a bigger plan.
While on our trip to New Jersey we decided to visit George’s cousin Lubos and his wife Dana. A brief side story here, Dana is from Czech Republic and has been in America for about 5 or 6 years. She is very sweet and has an endearing accent. Together they have a beautiful little daughter. Currently Dana is going to school to become a nurse. What I found fascinating is that Dana lights up when you talk about agriculture and farming, growing vegetables and of course … her cookies.
They were both very hospitable and Dana is a fantastic cook. During one of our girl conversations Dana told me about her cookies that she does every year, and how she wanted to make a batch for our luncheon.
I knowing how delicious Czech cookies are… immediately asked: “What?! You just GIVE them away? — People WOULD BUY them!”. She says… ‘oh, I never thought about selling my cookies, I don’t know what people will think.” …. I said, ” It matters not what people think, it is all about you and what you think.. and one thing you know… your cookies ARE great”.
Well… to make a long story short, I gave her consultation on marketing and website presence…. and she put it to the test IMMEDIATELY. (You can visit and order her cookies right from her website at: Dana’s Cookies). She rented a booth at a local event… baked up her quickly becoming famous batch of European cookies AND WITHIN MINUTES SOLD ALL OF THEM!
Now.. she is booked for the holidays at various places! I am VERY proud of Dana, she embraced her gifts and now is sharing it with the world. When we embrace our gifts and talents and share it with others, we in turn become BLESSED.
We received a batch of her European Artisan Treats which we will share at The Helpful Hands Foundation Gratitude Luncheon this weekend; her simple packaging foretold of the delicious treat inside. Beautiful presentation and each cookie was deliciously perfect!
Sometimes in life all we need is someone to believe in us, someone to say it’s okay to LIVE, it’s okay to CREATE, it’s okay TO BE YOU! If you are one of those people that find it hard to listen to your inner guide.. then you need to walk out your door and put yourself out there so you can hear the message as it comes through other peoples voice.
Do a self analysis and discover what your unique gift is, perhaps you love being around people, you may be a great trainer, a great presenter, a great sales person, a great carpenter, a great assistant, a great teacher, a great coach, a great leader. Once you discover it, go share it with the world — Yes, it’s time to LIVE OUT LOUD!
Daisy Says: Embrace your fears and believe in your talents.
Farm Life
Posted on : 16-11-2009 | By : Daisy | In : Daisy, Family- Life -Friends, Musings and What Nots
Tags: Daisy, Farm-Life
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I look forward to the day we bring a milk cow to the farmstead.
I would call her ‘Betsy’!
My grandfather was an incredible farmer, he not only had a sustainable farm but also took cattle raising to heart. He had cows for both milking and meat content.
So, whether it runs deep in my veins or it’s just the notion that one can’t have a farm without a cow grazing on the pasture. There is much work to be done, as we still need to secure the perimeter and clear the field of weeds.
Our new farmer friend Jose from Deland, Florida was so accommodating with information. He took us on his 80 acre farm, showed us the different holding corals for the cows. Showed us the bails of hay he had stored in the barn – he said they weighed about 300 lbs each. Mostly for feeding during the cold season when the grass tends to slow its growth.
He told us that cows eat with their bottom teeth and the importance of clearing the field of weeds…as the weeds will get in their tongue and cause infection. He said cows tend to eat most about anything.
I was full of questions, because it’s my first time caring for a cow.. needless to say a pregnant cow. So I asked …where do they have the baby calf.. would I need to prepare a special area for her? Jose said that they’ll just pick a corner of the field and pretty much nature takes care of nature; What I found interesting was when he mentioned the placenta, so I said… what should I do with it? He said, not to worry the cow eats it.
>> Cow eating Placenta CLICK HERE
Daisy Says: The cow, a gentle creature.








