Words of Safety from the old cop in me, here are some tips:

If You Are Traveling

Get an automatic timer for your lights. Ask a neighbor to watch your home, shovel snow, and park in the driveway from time to time. Don’t forget to have mail and newspaper delivery stopped. If it piles up, it’s a sure sign you’re gone.

If You Are Out for the Evening

Turn on lights and a radio or TV so it looks like someone’s home. Be extra cautious about locking doors and windows when you leave, even if it’s just for a few minutes. Don’t display gifts where they can be seen from outside. Make sure that your entry door is well lit.

If You Are Shopping

Stay alert and be aware of what’s going on around you. Park in a well-lighted space, and be sure to lock the car, close the windows, and hide shopping bags and gifts in the trunk. Avoid carrying large amounts of cash; pay with a check or credit card whenever possible. Shop with friends if possible. There IS strength in numbers. Deter pickpockets and purse-snatchers. Don’t overburden yourself with packages. Be extra careful with purses and wallets. Carry a purse close to your body, not dangling by the straps. Put a wallet in an inside coat or front pants pocket. Shopping with kids? Teach them to go to a store clerk or security guard if you get separated.

Protect Your Vehicle

Loading up on all those gifts is a sign of progress in the holiday shopping. But if those packages are left out in the open after they’re in the car, your car has become a likely target for thieves. Remember the old cliché “Out of sight, out of mind?” The same idea applies to items in your car.

Always lock your vehicle and store all items out of sight. Breaking into an empty car isn’t worth a thief’s time. However, anything left in plain view – from your holiday gifts to spare change, sunglasses, CDs, cell phones or briefcases – may tempt a thief.

Help prevent your vehicle from being stolen by always locking your car and using anti-theft devices. And although it’s cold, never leave your vehicle running while you run inside your home or a store – even if for only a minute or two.

If a Stranger Comes to the Door

Criminals sometimes pose as couriers delivering gifts. And it’s not uncommon for people to try to take advantage of others’ generosity during the holidays by going door-to-door for charitable donations when there’s no charity involved. Ask for identification, and find out how the funds will be used. If you aren’t satisfied, don’t give. Help a charitable organization you know and like instead.

Last but not least, don’t let holiday stress get the best of your holiday spirit. Make time to get together with family, friends, and neighbors. And think about reaching out in the spirit of the season and helping someone who’s less fortunate or lonely.

After You’ve Opened the Gifts

Burglars know that many households have new, and oftentimes expensive, items in their homes following the December holidays – especially items such as new computers and peripherals, stereo components, televisions, cameras and other electronic equipment. In too many cases, residents make it easy for burglars to figure out which homes to target by putting boxes that identify their new gifts in plain view with their other garbage.

Avoid becoming an easy target for post-holiday burglars by not leaving boxes for new electronics and other items in the alley or other garbage pick-up locations for several days at a time. Instead, break down any boxes you are throwing out, put them in garbage bags and place them inside a trash can. (In many cases, especially with computer equipment, you might consider keeping the boxes for safe storage, shipping or moving in the future.) Think about keeping broken-down boxes inside – in a garage, for example – until the evening before your regular garbage pick-up. Some burglars actually look inside garbage cans for evidence of holiday gifts. And, of course, if you see someone suspicious casing your alley, call the Metropolitan Police Department’s non-emergency number, (look it up in your directory and keep it handy). If you see a burglary in progress, call 9-1-1.

Take a Holiday Inventory

The holidays are a good time to update—or create—your home inventory. Take photos or make videos of items, and list descriptions and serial numbers. If your home is burglarized, having a detailed inventory can help identify stolen items and make insurance claims easier to file.

Make sure things like TVs, VCRs, stereo equipment, cameras, camcorders, sports equipment, jewelry, silver, computers, home office equipment, and power tools are on the list. Remember to check it twice!

Celebrate Responsibly

The holiday season is a time of celebration and revelry. Drinking and driving is a danger to everyone on the road. Remember that the risk isn’t worth it–if you choose to drink alcohol at a party, don’t drive. Take a cab, use public transportation or a designated driver. Have fun, but remember to celebrate responsibly.

PS: There most likely will be speed traps. Drive within the speed limit. Make sure your License is up to date as well as your car registration. Check to make sure your car lamps work and your tires have good threading…you don’t want to create a reason to get pulled over.

Daisy Says: Wisdom is to be shared.

Did that thought ever cross your mind?

What would you do differently tomorrow that you didn’t do today?

What words would you use with more frequency then you have been using?

What problems would mean nothing if you were not here to resolve them?

What wealth would matter if you were not here to enjoy it?

Who would you spend those precious hours with?

What meaning does anything have when you only have 45 days? If you can paint your next 45 days based on them being your last…why wait? Start today living like these are those precious hours and watch how beautiful and tender your life really is.

Daisy Says: Give your Life meaning and Live it with passion.

I traveled on a long journey…consumed in my own world . On a spread of long highway…I observed the scenes of flat lands and fast moving cars roll past me. The tires humming its sweet music of spinning motion under me..the sky churning gray dark clouds as the west sun descended. Then from dusk to evening the scenery did change…and in an instant the clouds consumed the dark heavens it arranged.

From East to West did a zig-zagging flash adorn the skies…not once, twice but what seemed an eternity…and I driving to it.

Not a sound. Yet the sky would light with the zig-zagging flare. Not a sound was heard…from all corners nor beyond.

She came and proclaimed her presence through her majestic flare…Not a Sound did I hear ..though I did drive with fear. Fear, did I say? Not a sound I heard. Then the rain did come down, first in droplets then it just poured. I understood that it was not fear that I felt …I was just in Awe. The blessings I gave to our beautiful Earth…the blessings of Rain I too received.

But most is the messge of Presence that speaks in silence and cares for us all. It is in silence that we must act and our message will be seen..felt and heard in the heart.

Daisy Says: Feel Life. Live Life.

Picture of roadway in Nevada.

Daisy Says: Sometimes Life’s road seems free and clear. Enjoy the Journey.

A little bit of what I have learned about men.

1. They like a good gossip. They can put women to shame when they get going.

2. They actually are weight conscious.

3. They are great shoppers.

4. They will try to get away with as much as they can if you let them.

5. Once they get hooked on a T.V. show they like…they are worse then women and soap operas.

6. They are sensitive. For every strength they have, they can be so tender.

7. They love ice cream.

8. You can’t seperate a man and his piece of ham.

Daisy Says: Men, they’re wonderful!